We rip out som much of ourselves to be cured of things faster that we go
bankrupt by the ages of thirty. And have less to offer each time we
stated with someone new. But to make yourself feel nothing so as not to
feel anything. What a waste.

l choose this topic for three reasons

How you live your life is your business. Just remember that our hearts
and our bodies are given to us only once and before you know it, your
heart’s worn out. As for your body,when no one looks as it much less
wants to come near.

1.Key point for P5 is body language

When I opened the Manual, I found that it’s a good topic.

2.I just finished English humorous contest,both club and T3 area

Even if I use the same Draft, say almost the same words, Different body
language makes the speech different.

3.I did not have much time to prepare for the speech so I think, if the
topic is body language,I don’t have to say much Words.

But when I finished the speech, I find that I was wrong.I should
prepare, both words and body language.

I want to ask you to do a little audit of your body and what you’re
doing with your body. So how many of you are sort of making yourselves
smaller? Maybe you’re hunching, crossing your legs. Sometimes we hold
onto our arms like this. Sometimes we spread out.

I see you. So I want you to pay attention to what you’re doing right
now.

In the animal kingdom, Body language is more popular.

They use body language to show power and dominance?

Imagine this is a cobra(A kind of snake) It usually move like this,But
when it’s in danger.It will stand up,and make itself big,stretch out,
take up more space,

永利皇宫,And this is true across the animal kingdom.

Have you seen a movie called《King-kong》,When the gorilla shows its
angry.

And humans do the same thing.

They do this both when they have power sort of chronically, and also
when they’re feeling powerful in the moment.

She shows that people who are born with sight and people who are blind
do this when they win at a physical competition. So when they cross the
finish line and they’ve won, it doesn’t matter if they’ve never seen
anyone do it. They do this. So the arms up in the V, the chin is
slightly lifted.

What do we do when we feel powerless? We do exactly the opposite. We
close up.

We make ourselves small. So again, both animals and humans do the same
thing.

So if someone is being really powerful with us, we tend to make
ourselves smaller. We don’t mirror them. We do the opposite of them.

There’s some evidence that they do. for example, we smile when we feel
happy, but also, when we’re forced to smile by holding a pen in our
teeth like this, it makes us feel happy. When it comes to power, it also
goes both ways. So when you feel powerful, you’re more likely to do
this, but it’s also possible that when you pretend to be powerful, you
are more likely to actually feel powerful.

When we think about communication, we think about interactions. So what
is your body language communicating to me? What’s mine communicating to
you?

Before I come to the stage.I was nervous.I was afraid.

And so I want to say to you, don’t fake it till you make it. Fake it
till you become it. You know? It’s not — Do it enough until you actually
become it and internalize.

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